'I love my partner but don't feel like having sex with them. Is this normal?'
Maintaining sexual interest in long-term relationships can be challenging for many of us, but it doesn't mean your relationship is doomed.
It’s okay if you don’t want to send nudes
Sexting has become a part of dating life, moving from text to pics to video. But what do you do if you or your partner don't want to send nudes?
‘It happened to me five times in ONE week.' The new dating trend I *don’t* want to write about.
Last week was going to be MY WEEK. I was putting myself out there. Well, fast forward a week and consider your girl BROKEN. Because I got cancelled. Blatantly ghosted. And it happened not once or twice.
Let’s talk about scissoring. (Barbie made us do it!)
Barbie made us do it! Scissoring is more than a move for V-on-V sex, it can be hot for all bodies (you don’t just need two vulvas). Expect grinding and genital-to-genital stimulation – with or without penetration.
Why are we fighting about the same old shit.
Why do we find ourselves in the same fights over and over again? These repeated conflicts can speak to a broader dynamic – a need, vulnerability or bias that is activated or unresolved. Couples therapy researcher Howard Markman defines three ‘hidden dimensions’ that underpin how and why we fight.
Using therapy vernacular to intimidate or manipulate your partner is never okay. Know the difference.
Controlling behaviour is not a boundary • Using language from therapy to intimidate or manipulate your partner is never okay. Jonah Hill’s text thread has everyone talking – where frameworks from therapy (i.e. setting ‘boundaries’) were used to justify abusive and dangerous behaviour. We break it down.
Face-sitting: a guide to the sexy, fun and empowering practice of getting off whilst sitting on a partner’s mouth.
Getting off on top • A guide to face sitting – the sexy, fun and empowering practice of getting off whilst sitting on a partner’s mouth. Swipe for your essential guide.
A sex coach on how to have the best one-night stand.
A sex coach explains how to have the best one night stands. Words by Laura Roscioli
Kissing. And why it feels so damn good.
Why you should be making out more – the science of kissing + my fave tips for a good sesh. Swipe to read, save or share with a lover.
Is the g-spot a myth?
Not as elusive as you may think. Pleasuring the g-spot can lead to heightened arousal, more sensation during penetrative sex and even orgasm.
SEXploring Boundaries
We saw the subjects of ‘setting boundaries’ and ‘people pleasing’ raised frequently throughout the questions asked at the Sexploration event recently with Durex and Sextember at UNSW.
A Guide To Dirty Talk
This week, we’re thinking and practicing dirty talk (DT), a highly-rated but often misunderstood way of building anticipation and arousal.
There are no 'normal' genitals
This week, we're talking genitals – their beauty, uniqueness, endless pleasure potential!